School starts tomorrow. I'm still trying to figure out where the summer went. Although looking back, we had summer, it just wasn't the summer I was used to, or the summer I needed, but for better or worse, it was summer. I'm hoping for some mellow months weather-wise before we travel headlong back into winter.
Last night was my oldest lamblet's orientation for middle school. She's excited. She feels she's finally going to be taking *real* classes. Something about a separate room and teacher for each class lends to their credibility. She nearly exploded with glee when she saw her science room and the lab tables!
Orientation was blessedly short. There were hundreds of people packed into a steamy gymnasium. The principal kept it to a brief 10-15 minutes and then let the people roam. The real point of the evening was to let the kids run through their schedules and see where their classes were. It was also to let the parents know what their children would be going through and while I appreciate the sentiment, I can't help, but wonder, did not most of us go through middle school and high school? I don't mind easing my child's way through transitions, but I kept wondering why so much is set up to let the parents know what school is like. I went through school. I remember school. I'm hip to the fact that you have approximately 5 minutes to get from one class to the next and somehow, you miraculously do it even though your classes may be a building apart and you have to pee on top of it. I know that. I want my child to learn that. And yet there were the parents who were giggling and saying how hard it was and how would their children do it?!?!
This reminded me of a mother I know who is still very much a part of her child's school experience. Aside from spending a lot of time each day hanging out at school, she often meets her child to eat lunch with him in the cafeteria or to take him out to lunch. She's pretty much done this since he started school. He's now going into the 7th grade. He has no extenuating circumstances that demand her presence. She merely states that she doesn't want to miss out on his school experience which leads me to the question, is it not HIS school experience? I love my lamblets and will do most anything for them, but plopping down at their lunch table so I don't miss their school experience is not on my list or theirs. I can help, I can ease, but this experience is theirs. They need to wade in and navigate a certain amount of it on their own.
So yes, tomorrow starts another school year. My eldest lamblet will be in middle school which happens to be close enough to our house so she can walk (no more stinky bus!!!). My youngest lamblet will now have her school to herself and will be able to chart her own path and not feel pressured to follow the path of her older sister.
Tomorrow is the start of school and while I am in so many ways ready for this summer to be over, I can't help but wonder where it went.
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